Monday, June 21, 2010

How Many Airmen Have Died In Iraq

As concluded all

I also participated in tennis tournament: D Doing disputes without going to protest. Do not is something was needed: one of the participants denounced the presence and my coach asked me to take over. I might have to explain a surge of pride that I am not the replacement for anyone, but to what end? I would bring fewer benefits than simply accept. So, I was there, to the surprise of my opponents.
I was very happy to participate because although I have lost (but I doubt) I was happy with my game, and I was glad for the people who played against me, their honesty and their intelligence. Everyone was excited
of my presence, and have asked me many compliments on what they say was a bold choice: single woman in a tournament open to all, but in which only men were enrolled. At the end of my opponents have offered to give me a tube of balls, because even if they are deleted in the first round (but with honor), I deserved that my choice was rewarded.
I do not feel I have done nothing special: I prefer to play against men, not because I reserve favorable treatment (none of my opponents has alluded to modify his game to help me), but because I always played them ( ... ever since I started playing three years ago: P), why do not I get scared of who plays hard (I know I play too loud, like some men), provided it is not fair with me and treat me as long as if I were a damina century.
So I thank the participants because they have been corrected and enthusiastic and I enjoyed it because: I do not care if I lose, I'm not a fast player, I know I still have some gaps, but I can stand up to almost any type of opponent, and I never do bad figures even when they lose;)


would be too good to be true in the world believe that there are only people with intelligence and respect for women who are able to recognize its value and do not feel threatened by their presence.
Luckily it was an isolated incident, but trouble!
As the only girl stand out clearly in my group and the subject concerned, in addition to not occur to me, but showing up only to men, was accompanied by a coach in my opinion, very unpleasant. Of those who consider themselves the champions, even though in reality train the player on Sunday, and most incompetent.
coach (not mine) was amused by my presence, as if I were an element of folklore, so he started to say that I was not the only girl in the tournament, but he was the second. A joke that I personally did little laugh, and it has puzzled even my mates round.
The joke continued with the coach explained that the existence of a little known and never felt league players transsexuals. "He, too, there are" was his cryptic statement.
firmly convinced that a beautiful silence never was written, I pretended not to hear and not understand the insinuation that I would likely be a transgender.
The best part was when they saw that his pupil was doing a sorry figure against one of my classmates approached to test the waters, "But you do races for so many years? Tournaments?".
"No, this is my third tournament."
He nods and throws yet another joke: "Do you want, there are sixty years to learn how to play."
Uhm. Insinuation that I do not know how to play? Lodgement confirmed when, when addressing his pupil, he approached me and Uccio OSA and say: "I saw that the level here is pretty Scarsini, no offense, so, that might not play against your boyfriend? Because it is obvious that there is no history with you, it would a waste of time. "
PLEASE?!
Apart from that our level is not at all Scarsini, obviously none of my group was a longtime player, all ranged from 1 to 3 years of playing and more sporadic. But moreover, how dare you? If you think such a thing, keep it for you, because you have not even brought to the new tournament Federer, far from it. A poor fool who also cheated on points! Let's talk. Fortunately Uccio
answers for me, avoiding I will be arrested for foul language: "The story is, look what you know to play well and especially if they turn the game five minutes stronger than a man. So be careful."
The coach is not convinced, his pupil even deign to listen to the speeches or wait while we prepare the camp.
Of course the story would be perfect if I had humiliated with a resounding 6-0, but they are a slow player and cut shots - more than just unpleasant to find - I often create problems that make me fall behind. Needless to say, the coward, understood this, he played only ever cut balls, balls that show exactly like him very nice and very elegant. The best part was
when, during a game when leading 40-0, the fool says the coach, "then I close the game. An ace, I do" and the coach: "I'm sorry eh, but he wants to close the game."
For me there is no problem, also because I knew the game would never have closed. In fact, the pupil shoots two buckets in network services. Needless to say, I won the game:)
small satisfaction that has been overshadowed by a few small lapses: for example, taking a long ball with my hands "because so much went out, was not to stay to pick it up. It should be point yours, but so does not change anything. " O
for example want to give me at all costs one point when I got a ball that was two centimeters beyond the bottom line: "No, no, he was out, point your" my objection: "No, your point is: I got a ball that was out, my fault, I should be more careful," the claim was "Ah, but come on, let it pass you're a sissy."
I got the point (40-30 for him) and the next ball I shot AFFIXED off the court: "The game is yours, as it should be a place does."
I lose, even against the morons. Not a problem for me to lose, it's obvious that I'd rather win, who do not want it? But you learn a lot, even in games lost a lot, especially from those. We analyze the errors, but, more importantly, we understand that person is and against whom you are playing.

And I like myself even when I lose. Why do I lose with honesty and based on all of my opponents . Sexism

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Tattooed Lower Stomachs

Two more words about


[ses-so-ʃmo]
sm
ideological or cultural trend that brings easy to discriminate one sex than the other, usually by providing for the superiority of the male, and to evaluate the intrinsic ability of people based on their sex roles. Perhaps

abuser of this term, maybe I'll use inappropriately, but when my tennis coach told me: "If you're the only girl in the tournament for me there are problems, we insert the same "and two days later on the phone, embarrassed, tells me that I can not participate in that, as expected, only girl, I run the ball. That just fine.
I turn on the flyer because it does not say anywhere that The tournament will be male . If it had been I mange to myself and that's it. But I really feel so discriminated against, and really pissed off.
Why can not I find just that. Since I play tennis (3 years) I played always and only with men, even in doubles. Just inside the tournament I had the opportunity to address women's plus for us were adopted different rules, it made me not a little angry, but I postponed.
If I play against is a good man, I do not see why I can not be allowed to participate in the tournament. Besides, there is no prize money at stake and, besides, I might easily beatable opponent. But if this does not interest me, as the white fly in question, why others should keep you from attending?
Now I find myself in the uncomfortable position of wanting to go to office and demanding to speak with the organizers, since both seem willing to talk with users.
The only thing holding me back is that I would not put in the uncomfortable position my coach, I have entered and they said - although my phone number and then contact potendomi - my inability to participate. Tomorrow
but a talk "friendly" I'm going to do it anyway, because I think it is my right.
The right to send someone to hell!

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Ford Mondeo Outside Temperature

Between ourselves

I'll make it. I'll make it. I'll manage to achieve all my goals.
I'll make it. I'll manage to bring my dreams to fruition.
I'll make it because I deserve it.
I'll make it because I am a tenacious, fair, honest and patient.
I'll make it because it would be terribly unfair to the contrary.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Lower Marzochi Junior T

Three point zero

I crossed the bridge to play tennis, but not surprisingly, unbelievably, that the Van der Meer who, I discovered, a little authority on the subject (nice to discover things back:))).
5 days were really beautiful, tiring of course, but fun and I learned many things. Most will be able to really put in practice.
And speaking with my teacher for five days, we have reason to like tennis, perhaps more than any other sport, highlights in the field and our way of being, to address (or address), a match or a friendly .
I realized how easily I throw away the points (a lot) to distraction, because it does not compete in the game, and not good. Spending half of the match having to recall the attention on my body, my movements. The problem is that they are very aware of my body and my attitude, but it takes too long to correct it. I'm very good to notice my mistakes, but slow to fix them.
And perhaps this may be worth in life, because often it is the uncertainty that I care, dammit.
But awareness is half the cure, right? ;)

PS: Meanwhile, tonight I used my stamp-psycho! Yuhua!